In many cases where clergy abuse occurs, the victim does not report the abuse. This could be because of power dynamics. The clergy member is a leader in the community and in the religion, and they may manipulate the victim to stay quiet.
This is why it can be helpful for family members to look for red flags and signs that the abuse is taking place. Below are a few examples that may be present in these cases.
Loss of religion
Many people lose their religion or their belief system. They may start to withdraw from the community. Someone who was very excited and positive about their religion before may become quiet and withdrawn, for example.
Substance abuse
In other cases, victims try to deal with the abuse in their own way, even if they are afraid to speak up. They may turn to substance abuse, for example, as a coping mechanism.
Health changes
There can also be serious health changes due to the abuse. In some cases, this means there are negative mental health ramifications, but abuse can also lead to serious physical illness.
Changes in the relationship
Finally, the relationship between the clergy member and the victim may clearly change in the way they interact with one another. Things like insults, arguments, manipulation, coercion and even physical assault can happen.
Legal options
If family members believe that clergy abuse is taking place, it is very important for them to know what legal options they have. This can be a very complex situation and it is helpful to work with an experienced law firm.